When I see a girl child going to school, a
girl going to college, another rushing to reach office on time and one more
topping the IAS, I’m the most satisfied and happiest man that moment to realize that
our India is CHANGING. Girls and women are getting liberty and freedom to
pursue their dreams, but the very next moment, when I get to hear or read in
newspapers a five-year old girl gang
raped, a college going girl acid attacked, another girl molested in a crowded
market while shopping, and a newly married young lady set on fire for dowry, I’m the most shattered, helpless and broken at
that moment to learn that NO, this INDIA can’t change, actually. Why do you so
called MARDS (मर्द) of India turn so insensitive when it comes to
respecting women, understanding their emotions and feelings, giving them the
liberty and freedom and ensuring them their security?
Hey, all such MAN! Is this only what you can do; is this only what you are tend to when you
see a girl walking alone on the road? Why should they (girls) change their
dressing style; can’t you change your looking style? Why should they carry a
Dupatta if they don’t wish to; can’t you carry a good intention in your head?
Who the hell are you to decide for them as to what to wear, what not to; what
to carry, what not to; where to look, where not to; how to walk, how not to;
how to dress, how not to; when to laugh out loud, when not to? Have you ever
seen a female abusing a male or a girl commenting obscene on a boy? Never!
Then, who the hell have YOU given the right to do so to them?
Hey, you MARDS! Can you leave
your parents, brothers, sisters, friends, family and your home for lifetime to
be with a girl as she does to settle down in your, sometimes, insane family
just to be with you, rather, to be dictated by you for lifetime? Can you fast
for your wife as she does for you, sometimes even without water for whole day
and night? Can you bear the pain that a woman goes through while delivering a
child? Can you multitask that well that she does at a time? Can you wash her
clothes? No. But she washes yours. Can you ever keep a track of her
accessories, clothes and other belongings? No. But she does keep a track of
your all the stuffs. You need your shocks, you need your napkin, you need your
pen, you need your spectacles, you need your missing files, and you know, she
is already there with these stuffs, even before you call her, without
complaining. You are such a parasite!
How well she takes care of your
well-being, both at home and outside! Do you ever recognize it? Can you do the
same for her? Can YOU ever multitask like her? Sadly, NEVER! Oh, I forgot, you
have EGO which is meant to remain unhurt, no? You are, after all, PATIDEV (पतिदेव). Sick
this! And the amount of tolerance she has – simply unmatchable. Maybe, that’s
why God chose HER to be a mother. Only she has that much tolerance and
endurance to bear a mother’s pain and patience to handle YOU BABIES. Have you
ever observed your mother how committed she is to the family and how much she
sacrifices everyday just to ensure your well-being? Have you ever observed your
sister how obedient she is and how punctual she is in sending you Rakhi when
you are working in some other city and not able to be at home that day? Are these qualities not
enough to win her utter respect?
Please, treat women and girls
like human being. They are the most special creation on this earth. You know, had
she not sacrificed so much, you would never have been functioning this well.
Grow up and be grateful to HER for your existence. Ensure them their freedom
and liberty. Ensure that no other girl is molested, acid attacked and set on
fire for dowry. Let us create a society where females get the priority. They
are the real creator of the world. As for as I am concerned, I respect them a lot. I prioritize them
and want to ensure them all the freedom they wish to have, all the time.
